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LIFE'S A BALL


This is the self told story of an average bloke who lives the second half of the 20th century - the early part of which was influenced greatly by the effects of the first half on his immediate family forebears. 

His fortunes fluctuate as Life’s ball bounces one way then another.

Wartime and post war childhood, bitter sweet teenage, schooling successes and abject failures, sexual and social awakening, sports, marriage, parenting, divorce, deaths, the swinging fortunes of work ethic, travel, remarriage - and life for ongoing living.  

Set in Wonthaggi, Sandringham, Brighton and St. Kilda in Melbourne, and then in Brisbane, Bribie Island and Goondiwindi, Queensland, the story may well typify  the effects on family life influenced by political and peer (social) pressures of the time.  

Fascinating. Explicit.  

It is told to pass on the mistakes, the pleasures, the rewards, and perhaps knowledge to his Son, and to relative family children to give them all an insight into their own formation through family influences over the 20th century and before it.  

Yet, the best is still to come . . . 

In Store Price: $28.00 
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ISBN:1-9211-1838-5
Format: A5 Paperback
Number of pages: 336
Genre: Non Fiction

 


Author: Richard Plant
Imprint: Poseidon
Publisher: Poseidon Books
Date Published:  2006
Language: English

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FOREWORD  

Cameron, it’s July 1st 1997.

Your mother has been in intensive care at Alfred Hospital ; when you told me this for the very first time I felt a weight lift from me. Not out of spite I hasten to add - but for some reason after all these years my mind has cleared. It’s as if my brain had been in meltdown with the facts blocked out. With that my abilities, talent and skills, particularly my intuitive, instant creativity, activities and attitude were curtailed. Non-existent.

I was in fact, burned out.

Now though, memories have been coming from nowhere. I’ve woken during the night recalling people, places, and events that have long been hidden, and I feel the time is right to commence documenting a little family history for you. I hope it’s informative and that the good, the bad and even the ugly give you an insight into the life and times the family went through, and how they were affected by events of the twentieth century.

Now for some housekeeping, the girls in this story, although real, are composites for their sakes (and my legals). Bondy is not an entity. She embodies many others - a body corporate!

Everything within this book indeed happened, but I must disguise all the lovely ladies concerned - and embody them within the pseudonyms chosen.

So it is with ‘The Adviser’. The bastard existed; so did his actions, but he’s hidden from legal sight, which is in one way rather unfortunate.

‘Jerry’ is based on Sally, but is again a conglomerate. No single person joined in each and every one of the escapades I’ve outlined. But those Sal missed, I suspect he’d have enjoyed as much anyway.

All the conversation quotations may not be verbatim, but they certainly do express the gist of whatever was said at any given time. I make no apologies for specific details of sexual awakenings before marriage, and the tertiary education in the same subject I received (and taught) between marriages. As the experts say, ‘What happened, happened as a result of what happened - and cannot be unhappened.’ Perhaps there should be a BSex (Hon)? What a way to graduate!

Appreciation, and much love is expressed to Kathleen, you Cameron, Thel Tuckey and our siblings and cousins. What you will read is how ‘Life’s Ball Bounced’.

I hope you consider it worth keeping.                          

R - Dad    

Beginning the Background

 

The three grandfathers and grandmothers were young adults at Federation in 1901. Alf Plant was a miner and a butcher. Joe and Dick Crawley were bakers.

I don’t know much about their individual early days - Pop Joe had married Sarah Elliott from Port Melbourne. Mum was their fourth and last child after Joe, Frank, and George. No one seems to know what happened - suffice to say that Mum was brought up by Dick and Nell (Ellen) Crawley - but she was extremely close to her brothers, particularly Joe and Frank. A few years later, Thelma Tuckey was taken in by Nan and Pop. Mum and Thel developed a closeness akin, if not better, than the best of sisters.

Pop Dick had a number of souvenirs from WWI where he served (literally) in the kitchens in France . None of them talked about individual happenings, except that I knew somehow from them about Flanders Fields and the town that’s now named for Australia and Melbourne in particular.

Dad was born in Rutherglen, but my memories of the Plants and Webbs are from Wonthaggi where Pop worked at the coal mine and hung his own meat. He was active amongst the workers, and was a past President and Life Member of the Wonthaggi Working Man’s Club.

Wonthaggi was a coal-mining town. The mine/s were State-owned, supplying coal to the Railways. Some other mines in nearby Leongatha and Korumburra were private concerns, but they also supplied coal in competition.

There were trying times in the forties when major strikes held up production and the State wanted their workers to ‘scab’ at the private mines. Eruption! There’s a TV documentary series about those times (and earlier I suspect) that I’m told is quite accurate. Also, our cousin Amy wrote a poem of the time, which is included in my “Other Writings” postscript.

Pop used to campaign vigorously for the miners and the party from the back of a dray, whilst Dad and his cornet plus a few other members of the Salvation Army band would try to drown him out. Ben Chifley, former train driver, was their idol. Arthur Warner, State Minister for Transport (their boss) was not.

Two major things happened on the eighty-mile beach near Wonthaggi. First, a whale was washed ashore. Its jawbone was preserved and placed over the corner verandah of Taberner’s hotel right opposite Wonthaggi railway station. Visitors carved their names on it.

Second, (Sir) Arthur Warner’s yacht was washed up on the same beach during or after a storm. Wonthaggi folklore alleges the locals left it there. High and dry.

Pop and Nammy hosted the Webb brothers from time to time. Paddy Webb went to New Zealand where he became famous (infamous?) as a Union activist on the waterfront.

George Webb, former bullock driver, went to Glenhuntly where he was one of the last woodmen - horse and cart - supplying and delivering firewood locally. Betty and Les Linklater shared the place with him and a Webb sister I knew only as ‘Little Aunt’ - real name, Mary. They lived behind a drapery shop that they demolished to build the house you might remember in Glenhuntly Road .

Another brother ‘Sloke’ - real name Frank, lived with Nam and Pop in his last years. He was famous for his limp and walking stick - he would limp along the street until out of sight, then tuck the stick under his arm and walk at a steady gait to the pub. Sloke would either stagger back or get a lift from Dick Brook the Wonthaggi taxi operator.

One thing stands out in my memory about all these men. They were hard. Hands gnarled. Tough. Working men not from the cities. And yet they were gentle, even though their tough old leather belts, probably fashioned by themselves, also served as effective disciplinary tools for the youngsters of their day. I would have liked to have known them as a man.

Their ladies were brought up in the Victorian era. They ruled the home, served their men, educated the children, and all without pre-packaged foods and work-easy appliances. Wood stoves were the norm. Coal burners in Wonthaggi.

The fire never went out at Nammy and Pop’s. The embers of the coal fire at nighttime would light the stove in the morning, and the embers of the stove would ignite the coal in the fireplace at night. This was the generation who were born in the horse and cart society, and who saw the effect of steam, petrol and oil – the generation that experienced the birth of the automobile, the aeroplane and electricity.

They lived through the hell of two world wars – they served in one and watched and waited through the other.

I remember being with Pop Plant watching Sputnik soar above our back yard in Brighton , and he said simply,    “I’ve seen it all now son.”

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